Posted by: ivyschex | January 30, 2012

Horse Training: Is it About Winning and Losing?

A friend of mine and I were talking.  We ended up talking about how every interaction with a horse is a win or a loss.  I began disagreeing with her.  I said that if you make training sessions about winning or losing, black or white, then you set yourself up to fail.  If it comes down to you or your horse, you can never win unless you dominate your horse to make sure you never lose.

However, after talking about it some more, we both concluded that what we really meant was that each day was an opportunity to win or lose… for you.  It is all about you!  You have the opportunity to win or lose in each situation.  Your attitude and your response to your horse’s actions determines the outcome.  Even if you seemed to make little or no progress, if you stayed focused, relaxed, and calm and kept your horse that way… you WIN!

If, however, you allow the horse’s reactions to trigger emotions of anger, frustration, and failure, you have just lost the battle, no matter what your horse does.  You cannot necessarily control your horse’s actions and reactions, but you can control yours.

So, yes, horse training is about winning and losing, but it is not necessarily a contest of wills between you and your horse, but it is about your willingness to control your actions and your attitude no matter what your horse does.



Every interaction with your horse is an opportunity for you to win, an opportunity to prove to your horse that you are a trustworthy leader and a safe companion.  This can only happen when you are able to be content with yourself and with your horse, no matter what happens.  This is what winning is all about!

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